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The Elephant Man MAG

November 18, 2009
By StarlingChild PLATINUM, El Cajon, California
StarlingChild PLATINUM, El Cajon, California
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Favorite Quote:
"Success is not final. Failure is not fatal. It is courage to continue that counts." - Winston Churchill

I don't know why he frightened me so. Perhaps it was my innocence, childish fears, or simply the cold hand of reality that caused me to react the way I did. But as the years passed, my subconscious began to develop a small corner of long-term regret.

Like a tumor in the body, this spot in my mind slowly infected my personality, causing me to become passionately aware of the evils of the world and making me want to stop them. Human evils, specifically. Outwardly, I know my reasoning is foolish: what happened all those years ago was simply due to childish ignorance. It had nothing to do with making me into a hypocrite or a sinner. Yet somehow, that biting corner in my memory remains to remind me of the way I treat others.

I try to fight back this infection by thinking not of what I did, but of him. Does he still remember that his presence, his haunting face, held so much horror for a little girl? But most of all, does he remember what I did?

I screamed. That's my crime. I saw a man, not 20 feet from me, whose face seemed to be disconnected from his skull, a cascade of worn, velvet curtains descending upon a dusty stage. Resembling a beard made of useless flesh, his defective features appeared so distorted that they no longer resembled human skin, but rough, crinkly elephant flesh. His dark skin tone completed the visage, making him truly look like an extra-terrestrial being having a tour of planet Earth.

At least, that's what my six-year-old eyes perceived. And so I screamed. It was not a yelp – quick, to the point, and over before you knew it – or even the squeal of a child who is startled or caught red-handed. Either of those would have been forgivable.

No, I uttered the loudest, most high-pitched, blood-curdling scream any child could ever create. People in Mongolia may have heard the echo of my cry from the inland city of El Cajon in San Diego County. My scream must have interrupted every Broadway show in New York City.

At least, that's what it felt like at the time. I didn't care if the world heard me. I wanted help, though I wasn't hurt. I wanted an explanation, though I didn't ask for it like a normal human being. Instead I screamed, without words. Just one long scream of horror. Right there in the grocery store. Right next to the safety of my mother and brother. And right in earshot of that monster.

And that's exactly how I viewed him: a separate species from mankind, come to prey upon innocent children and do other horrible things to them. I was afraid of being one of his victims. I can't understand how, at the time, I could idolize Quasimodo, the animated, deformed hero of Disney's “The Hunchback of Notre Dame,” yet be terrified by this real-live Quasi.

Most of my memory of that day is lost forever. What store it was, what we bought, whether it was a school day, weekend, or vacation – these are all forgotten. But the sight of the man's grotesque features sticks in my mind.

To this day, I wonder whether the elephant man recollects the incident. Does the memory of my scream still haunt him? Or, is he so used to similar – and possibly worse – reactions that my particular scream did not affect him? If he does remember, he might think I have forgotten him by now, as the world tends to overlook those like him.

But how can I forget? I must have hurt him terribly then, even if he's forgotten it now. I imagine that he glanced in my direction, not meaning to give me a full view of his distorted features, but just to gaze at me, as if willing me to see into his heart.

What's the matter? he would have wanted to say. There's nothing to be afraid of. I'm still human.

I picture his eyes staring at me as I sob in the grocery aisle with my mother hovering over me. Maybe he was angry, fed up with the negative reactions meeting him at every turn. Maybe the incident motivated him to leave town. Maybe I caused him so much pain that he did something rash, like attempt suicide. Maybe it was none of those; maybe I just recreated a memory from his past, when other children treated him cruelly at school.

I guess that's one good thing. I didn't laugh or mock him. But I still screamed. I didn't just stare, or gasp, or yelp and hide; I screamed.

So how can I forget? At the time, the memory of his face was burned into my brain and visited my worst nightmares. Now the only thing I fear is his soul and how badly I hurt it.

Is it possible that my instinct to always do unto others as I would want them to do unto me was caused by my upbringing? Or did this singular experience plant that lesson in my heart that day?

For some reason, I can't help but believe that the elephant man did more than leave a nightmarish addition to my memory. He unknowingly implanted a powerful monitor in my conscience that will forever govern my treatment of others. Naturally, I have screwed up many times, whether out of juvenile jealousy or a spiteful temper. I have never screamed at another poor soul like that, but when it comes to controlling my other emotions, I sometimes break away from my internal leash.

That's when the elephant man comes in; instantly after my little rampage, I feel a horrible emptiness, as if what I just did created more pain for him. My regretful soul clashes constantly with my hot head; the two weights of my life (my temper and my moral sense) are often shifting my secure seat in the world until I am trembling so violently I don't know which way to turn.

Then the memory of the elephant man returns, this time to coax me, to remind me of that crucial truth we all must face in life: I am only human. I am not perfect. I cannot change others' problems. This does not mean I should inflict pain on them, nor can I prevent myself from slipping once in a while. That man is more than just a memory; he lives in me, in my mind, soul, and body, guiding me every day.

The author's comments:
This is the first time in living memory in which I wrote from the depths of my soul. It required much digging, and plenty of grievances as well, but eventually I came up with the final piece. Although for a few years now, I've considered myself a writer, I never produced something as profound as something that was as real and surreal as my encounter with the "elephant man." So really, this is more than just a memoir; it's a doorway within my imagination to awaken my senses of the world, writing, and myself.

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This article has 19 comments.

james1972jvc said...
on Jan. 16 2021 at 6:10 am
james1972jvc, Palm Desert, California
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His name was Randy Lee Grigsby Davidson.

Jessica said...
on Aug. 16 2013 at 1:02 am
I remember him and thought of him today which caused me to look him up.  I read that he passed away in 2007.  I too had my regrets, having seen him several times growing up when I would visit the mall, on one occasion I was sitting on a bench with a friend and when I got up and turned he was next to me which made me gasp.  I hated myself for having such a reaction right in front of him.  I remember him alway painting his nails and growing them long, (so he couldnt have minded his shock factor too much) and I read that he was a warm friendly person if you ever said hi.  His name was Randy.  I'm sure he would appreciate that we would remembered him and that he taught us a little something too =)

ElizabethSO said...
on Dec. 28 2012 at 12:34 am
Thank you so much for posting this! It seems to validate a struggle I have had recently - the struggle with the prejudiced part of myself, which clashes with the part of me that wants to accept everyone. Reading your story lets me know that I'm not the only one.

on Oct. 19 2012 at 3:33 pm
chrisvfree PLATINUM, N/A, Florida
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Favorite Quote:
I pretty much try to stay in a constant state of confusion just because of the expression it leaves on my face. - Johnny Depp

This is such a powerful, gripping story with excellent emotional/visual imagery. It will definitely linger on my mind for quite a while.

bluhs said...
on Oct. 19 2012 at 2:50 pm
bluhs, E, Alabama
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Did you discover a new elephant man, because the guy I heard of died in the 1800s? Amazing piece by the way. Five stars.

mikejones123 said...
on Oct. 1 2012 at 4:40 pm
I like the storiey because IT gave alot of facts and it was sad because of what happenend to her

on Sep. 5 2012 at 2:37 am
TerraCotta GOLD, Cupertino, California
17 articles 0 photos 14 comments

Favorite Quote:
“A man, who has no conscience, no goodness, does not suffer.”

Joseph? I think that was his name.

on Nov. 14 2011 at 1:42 pm
StarlingChild PLATINUM, El Cajon, California
23 articles 0 photos 21 comments

Favorite Quote:
"Success is not final. Failure is not fatal. It is courage to continue that counts." - Winston Churchill

Wow!! Thank you!! :) 

on Nov. 4 2011 at 6:36 pm

You should submit this to "The Far East," an anthology about El Cajon by East County writers. It's great!

-Duckie- GOLD said...
on Aug. 22 2011 at 9:05 pm
-Duckie- GOLD, West Fargo, North Dakota
18 articles 0 photos 127 comments

Favorite Quote:
Your heart is a weapon the size of your fist. Keep fighting. Keep loving.

This is very powerful and straight from the soul! Many people have memories like that, myself included... I also enjoyed the bit about your scream interrupting Broadway shows in NY.

on Jun. 1 2011 at 8:48 pm
Dizzy.Bird BRONZE, Thornton, Colorado
3 articles 0 photos 9 comments

Favorite Quote:
"Shoot for the moon, even if you miss you shall land among the stars."

Wow... this is wonderful. I can really connect to it.

emma123 said...
on Mar. 1 2011 at 9:37 pm
do either of you perhaps know his name? i would love to read his obituary, and read about his life! this peice did a great job in comemoration (sp?)!! this is one of the best things i've ever read on teen ink, it felt right from the heart :)

on Feb. 11 2011 at 9:19 pm
Well done. Always a pleasure to read a tale that tugs at the heart, particularly a well written one. 

on Aug. 23 2010 at 12:06 pm
StarlingChild PLATINUM, El Cajon, California
23 articles 0 photos 21 comments

Favorite Quote:
"Success is not final. Failure is not fatal. It is courage to continue that counts." - Winston Churchill

I know! I didn't find out until after I finished writing this, though. I only hope this story will preserve his memory to those who've met him. :)

msmith082210 said...
on Aug. 23 2010 at 12:08 am
I remember him too. Would always see him walking down 2nd Street. Unfortunatly, he passed away in July 2007,

Babylufin GOLD said...
on Jul. 28 2010 at 9:08 pm
Babylufin GOLD, Liberal, Missouri
13 articles 2 photos 229 comments

Favorite Quote:
"'For I know the plans I have for you', declares the Lord, 'plans to prosper you and not harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.'" Jeremiah 29:11. Thank you Lord, for this future you've given me.

I agree completely.

on Jul. 6 2010 at 2:04 pm
Alex_Durham GOLD, Vineland, New Jersey
14 articles 1 photo 234 comments

Favorite Quote:
Do not go gentle into that good night. Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

i have never seen him, but, from your story, i can believe that you regret being afraid. i probably would have done the same.

on Feb. 24 2010 at 5:12 pm
sophietle BRONZE, Houston, Texas
4 articles 3 photos 33 comments

Favorite Quote:
"As is a tale, so is life: not how long it is, but how good it is, is what matters." - Seneca

I think that the fact that you wrote from your heart and soul has come across beautifully in this piece.

llmerx said...
on Jan. 30 2010 at 4:08 pm
I too have seen the man in El Cajon, Ca and even as a teenager backed up when he stood next to me. I regret that reaction I had he can't help how he looks.