The family is a fundamental aspect of society, and divorce, a common occurrence, significantly affects children. This paper explores whether divorce contributes to the challenges children face. Divorce can lead children to believe they are responsible for the separation, impacting their mental health (Tash, 2021). This topic is personal to me, given the prevalence of divorced parents among those I know.

Research Aims:

This report aims to raise awareness about divorce's impact on children, their reactions, and ways to support them.

Research Methodology:

The primary research method is a questionnaire targeting divorced individuals or those with divorced parents. Secondary sources include credible articles, books, and websites.

Issue:

Causes: Lack of commitment is the primary cause of divorce, followed by infidelity and other factors like excessive arguing, marrying young, financial issues, substance abuse, and abuse . These factors contribute to the high divorce rates globally.

Consequences: Divorce can lead to anxiety, depression, and trust issues in children. It affects their views on commitment, relationships, and family dynamics, impacting their behavior and mental well-being.

Analysis Between Causes and Consequences: Children may internalize the lack of commitment as their fault, affecting their future relationships. This can instill a fear of commitment and influence their own relationships later in life.

Cultural Perspectives: Divorce is perceived differently worldwide. Western countries like the US and Canada have more liberal views on divorce, while in countries like Pakistan and India, there's still stigma attached to it.

Local Perspective / Survey Answers: A survey of 28 individuals aged 12-19 with divorced parents showed that divorce significantly impacts children, emphasizing the need for awareness and support.

International Organization: "Kids Matter" is a nonprofit aiding children of divorced parents globally, advocating for their rights in family courts.

Course of Action:

Organizations like the Pakistan Council of Family Relations and Aurat Foundation support families in Pakistan post-divorce. The UN and EU provide assistance and regulations to aid single parents and their children.

Defense:

Despite its challenges, divorce can offer benefits like personal growth and the opportunity for healthier relationships.

Evaluation of Sources:

All sources were cross-checked for accuracy and relevance to ensure the credibility of the information presented.

Conclusion:

Divorce undoubtedly impacts children, influencing their emotional well-being and future relationships. It's crucial to provide support for children and parents navigating divorce.

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