You feel like you did something wrong because you probably hurt her when you said you didn't want to be her boyfriend. If you like her then go for it. Especially if you two have good chemistry; it's very hard to find. And as for being in limbo, you aren't in limbo silly; you sound just like my boyfriend. He was so afraid of getting close to me that he acted like he just wanted to be friends but he was really into me. He was just afraid. I think you're afraid. My boyfriend was scared too that he would lose me as a friend. But if you don't look into this you might really regret it. And this might just be me, but when she says a "special" way I think she means she's really, really into you. I don't think there is any turning back/walking away from that. So you might as well ask her out. If you don't then you're just gonna keep hurting her and that's going to hurt you because you care about her. And you should let her know that you care about her. The fact that you are hurting because she is hurting is really special; I think you just might be fallin for her. Don't let fear keep you from what you really want :)  I really hope this helps you !!!! ^-^ 

Okay, but what if you are in limbo of liking a person. I'm a guy and I think I may have made a mistake. I like one of my female friends; I've told her and I said to her "I don't want to be your boyfriend, I just want to be a very good friend to you." She's unmoved (nothing has happend). She's said to me that she likes me in a "special" way. But I feel like I did something wrong: it's hurting me. I really need advice.