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Breakup Advice

September 24, 2009
By Anonymous

After those amazing relationships end, you have to ask yourself how things will continue. If you broke up with your partner, you must either be unhappy with them, mad at them, tired of them, or some other circumstance. So, if it is you who breaks up with the other, stop and think. As one single person, you don't have any idea what the other might go through. One moment to you is completely different that that of another. For example, you might go on a date and have the time of your life, oblivious to that fact that the one you care for is about to slit their wrists in boredom.
Just and example.
But that is something that you can relate to a breakup. You might think that things are better off without the other. They might be tripping and falling behind you, trying to catch up and get you back. It happens a lot, and these breakups are the worst. I myself went through one. And I've scraped my knees so much over these past to years tripping and falling after her(yes, two years. She's so beautiful I can't stop thinking about her). I've found out the the first and most important thing you can do to stay out of those horrible, bad break ups, is to forget. Easier said then done, right? Well, there is only one way to completely get over such a thing. Overwrite the memories that the two of you shared. Now, people call this a rebound, but isn't every boyfriend/girlfriend after the first a rebound? You must make better memories with this person. Have a greater time, and think about the new things you share rather then all the things you used to share with the other. Take it from me, with time, almost everything is mendable.


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lil smilez said...
on Dec. 11 2009 at 9:46 am
im only 15. and he ment alot to me. it is easier said than done. he lied the whole time and now dating an ex. so pretty much i got played but he ment the world to me and for him to tell me im nothing hurts.

on Dec. 10 2009 at 1:45 pm
TamaraN PLATINUM, Kalispell, Montana
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hehe ya you should check out my storys when you get the chance

on Dec. 10 2009 at 1:40 pm
White_Shadow BRONZE, Putnam, Illinois
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Favorite Quote:
"A life without cause is a life without effect." - Unknown

thanks! i'll try! haha

on Dec. 10 2009 at 9:35 am
TamaraN PLATINUM, Kalispell, Montana
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its really good advice u should make a second one

on Dec. 9 2009 at 11:17 pm
White_Shadow BRONZE, Putnam, Illinois
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Favorite Quote:
"A life without cause is a life without effect." - Unknown

i think i will! lol. and thank you

on Dec. 9 2009 at 4:15 pm
InkBlot1 BRONZE, Co Springs, Colorado
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Favorite Quote:
"But soft! What light through yonder window breaks? It is the east, and Juliet is the sun! Arise fair sun, and kill the envious moon, for she is sick and pale with grief.."-Romeo, from Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet.

i think you should =) A second one would be great! if you write another one, let me know, i'd love to read it

on Dec. 8 2009 at 10:57 pm
White_Shadow BRONZE, Putnam, Illinois
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Favorite Quote:
"A life without cause is a life without effect." - Unknown

it's hardly long enough to tell i've got talent dear! but thank you, really :D i've considered making a Break Up advice #2...but i havent gotten around to it. I'm sure i'll throw something together haha

on Dec. 8 2009 at 9:33 pm
InkBlot1 BRONZE, Co Springs, Colorado
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Favorite Quote:
"But soft! What light through yonder window breaks? It is the east, and Juliet is the sun! Arise fair sun, and kill the envious moon, for she is sick and pale with grief.."-Romeo, from Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet.

I really enjoyed this! it helps people who have gone through bad break-ups (like myself) =) keep writing, you've got talent

on Nov. 29 2009 at 10:46 pm
White_Shadow BRONZE, Putnam, Illinois
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Favorite Quote:
"A life without cause is a life without effect." - Unknown

so, now what is the subject to your 5 short stories?

on Nov. 28 2009 at 10:18 am
loveibanez BRONZE, Maumee, Ohio
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Favorite Quote:
"When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on!" -Ben Franklin

haha, good! And same here...

on Nov. 28 2009 at 12:23 am
White_Shadow BRONZE, Putnam, Illinois
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Favorite Quote:
"A life without cause is a life without effect." - Unknown

ha. yah, i know what you mean. and i reply any time that i check my email (which is at least once a day) i don't mind at all!

ajparker said...
on Nov. 27 2009 at 7:40 pm
How do you twilighters turn every situation into something related to twilight?!

It annoys the heck out of me!!!

on Nov. 27 2009 at 1:30 pm
loveibanez BRONZE, Maumee, Ohio
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Favorite Quote:
"When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on!" -Ben Franklin

No! haha, i don't want you to stop replying, I am just saying that if you want to, feel free to stop. ((Sorry, it did kinda stound like I was saying that, but that's not what I meant!))

on Nov. 27 2009 at 1:06 pm
White_Shadow BRONZE, Putnam, Illinois
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Favorite Quote:
"A life without cause is a life without effect." - Unknown

ok. and you want me to stop replying to you?

on Nov. 26 2009 at 10:29 pm
loveibanez BRONZE, Maumee, Ohio
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Favorite Quote:
"When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on!" -Ben Franklin

*This Is Life.in.Plaid, I just got a real account now!* I know exactly how you feel, I have been woring on a series of 5 short stories for a while now, and it's taking forever! and I just got done with the third one, they seem to be progressivly getting worse and its really hard to keep coming up with new ideas... it's quite depressing. but I am keeping at it and hopefully they will get better. ((Also, you may stop replying to my posts at any time (: ))

on Nov. 26 2009 at 9:22 pm
White_Shadow BRONZE, Putnam, Illinois
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Favorite Quote:
"A life without cause is a life without effect." - Unknown

ha. i guess it sorta is. i'm pretty humble about everything i do. so i wouldn't say its awesome. And its been slow work. with school and all..

on Nov. 26 2009 at 3:22 pm
Thankyou, thats probably a good idea... I might write some thing random like that and put it on here too... I wish i could read your story though, I bet is purdy coo' ^^)

on Nov. 25 2009 at 1:26 pm
White_Shadow BRONZE, Putnam, Illinois
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Favorite Quote:
"A life without cause is a life without effect." - Unknown

Yea. I've got a story i'm working on at the moment and i don't feel like putting it on here. I'd say keep it for yourself. But thats just because there isn't really a need to put it on here. My storys about 230 pages at the moment, and i'm just keeping it to humorous, breakup advice, or short stories lol. And thanks for the comment :)

on Nov. 24 2009 at 11:44 pm
Haha, I love your atricle 'Pardon?' i was the one who commented on it first, i think i put my name as Peanutt or something

on Nov. 24 2009 at 11:43 pm
Umm, I have lot's of Different stuff. i write short stories, but most of them are to long to put on here and I have a poem. the story i wanted to put on was a kind of emotional... cool... kinda Christan twisted story, but i just really don't want someone to take it... not saying that it's that good, but I dunno and thank you for replying