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Breakup Advice
After those amazing relationships end, you have to ask yourself how things will continue. If you broke up with your partner, you must either be unhappy with them, mad at them, tired of them, or some other circumstance. So, if it is you who breaks up with the other, stop and think. As one single person, you don't have any idea what the other might go through. One moment to you is completely different that that of another. For example, you might go on a date and have the time of your life, oblivious to that fact that the one you care for is about to slit their wrists in boredom.
Just and example.
But that is something that you can relate to a breakup. You might think that things are better off without the other. They might be tripping and falling behind you, trying to catch up and get you back. It happens a lot, and these breakups are the worst. I myself went through one. And I've scraped my knees so much over these past to years tripping and falling after her(yes, two years. She's so beautiful I can't stop thinking about her). I've found out the the first and most important thing you can do to stay out of those horrible, bad break ups, is to forget. Easier said then done, right? Well, there is only one way to completely get over such a thing. Overwrite the memories that the two of you shared. Now, people call this a rebound, but isn't every boyfriend/girlfriend after the first a rebound? You must make better memories with this person. Have a greater time, and think about the new things you share rather then all the things you used to share with the other. Take it from me, with time, almost everything is mendable.
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my break up advice, go bungee jumping after you got dumped or do anything extreme but safe to lose it in the moment of shock
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The most hurtful thing is that me loving someone, and they don't return the favour :(
I currently like this guy, even though we only met at an online game (but he knows my BFF irl). I was attracted to him when i first talked to him, and more as I know more about him. We are really similar in personalities except hes more better than me. I tried to give him the hint that i like him (i guess he thinks its a joke) but he never did anything that convinced he likes me back more than a friend. Its hurtful really.. But seriously you can't force people to love you. So im just now looking at him, hoping he would like me back someday..
Hi i love this! It actually gives me an actual inlook on what Im going through. My ex and I have been dating eachother for a year and we were eachother's first in everything but me i want to focuz on school and not be tied down so early because I havent really finished high school but he has already so i could use the help, please write back :)
