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Breakup Advice

September 24, 2009
By Anonymous

After those amazing relationships end, you have to ask yourself how things will continue. If you broke up with your partner, you must either be unhappy with them, mad at them, tired of them, or some other circumstance. So, if it is you who breaks up with the other, stop and think. As one single person, you don't have any idea what the other might go through. One moment to you is completely different that that of another. For example, you might go on a date and have the time of your life, oblivious to that fact that the one you care for is about to slit their wrists in boredom.
Just and example.
But that is something that you can relate to a breakup. You might think that things are better off without the other. They might be tripping and falling behind you, trying to catch up and get you back. It happens a lot, and these breakups are the worst. I myself went through one. And I've scraped my knees so much over these past to years tripping and falling after her(yes, two years. She's so beautiful I can't stop thinking about her). I've found out the the first and most important thing you can do to stay out of those horrible, bad break ups, is to forget. Easier said then done, right? Well, there is only one way to completely get over such a thing. Overwrite the memories that the two of you shared. Now, people call this a rebound, but isn't every boyfriend/girlfriend after the first a rebound? You must make better memories with this person. Have a greater time, and think about the new things you share rather then all the things you used to share with the other. Take it from me, with time, almost everything is mendable.


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kilo_14 said...
on Nov. 5 2009 at 3:35 pm
kilo_14, Lakeland, Florida
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Favorite Quote:
Life is about taking risks, so becareful what risks you take because you never know what is good or what is bad.

This is good I liked it because the same thing happend 2 me.

KiDd BlInKz said...
on Nov. 5 2009 at 1:28 pm
this really aint all that its though

iight u fill me

on Nov. 5 2009 at 1:15 pm
I LIKE THIS THIS A REALLY GOOD STORY EVERYBODY HAS BEEN THROUGH A BAD BREAK UP AND IT HURT WHEN YOU CANT GET THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE BAK BUT SOMETIMES YOU DO GET AN EXTRA FEW CHANCES SOMETIMES U CANT HELP HOW YOU BEGAN TO FEEL ABOUT SOMEONE

on Nov. 5 2009 at 1:09 pm
ChiLE WELL iqUESS i'ON REALLy LikE thiS StORy it StR8 bUt it AiNt ALL dAtH ANd tAh MEh diS AiNt NO AdViCE tAh bREAk UP 4REAL 4REAL (BHAAAD)

on Nov. 5 2009 at 11:24 am
omg this is a reallya nice article. I really like it. i hope that when i brake up with my guy wich i hope never happens i hope that it could go down this path. I really

HuNnY~bUnNy said...
on Nov. 5 2009 at 11:24 am
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MRZ.blAKE said...
on Nov. 5 2009 at 11:23 am
iNO GURl it WASz SO GUd

on Nov. 5 2009 at 11:20 am
diSz ArTiClE WAS GREAt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!~

on Nov. 5 2009 at 11:19 am
i realy love this artical so much it gives me a lot of clues to what b happenin in my life this is great

on Nov. 5 2009 at 11:18 am
This story is good, i think the person that broke up with the partner has to have a reason for it. And the person that got broken up wif would feel sad or the same way but i dont know.

jdoc said...
on Nov. 5 2009 at 10:56 am
idk what u thanking i liked this story very good

on Nov. 5 2009 at 9:47 am
this is strait but too nice in juck i would just dump her and be like move on

on Nov. 5 2009 at 9:19 am
this article inspiered me

on Nov. 5 2009 at 9:14 am
i loved the article

on Oct. 28 2009 at 10:31 pm
White_Shadow BRONZE, Putnam, Illinois
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Favorite Quote:
"A life without cause is a life without effect." - Unknown

thank you!

on Oct. 28 2009 at 9:05 pm
earth-to-jenn BRONZE, Strawn, Texas
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Favorite Quote:
Let memories be a blessing, not a curse. God put us here for a reason, so make it worth everyones' time and pursue happiness every chance you get. Don't let people put you down. Smile, because life is to short to not have fun. And always remember to dream big because maybe you strikeout nine times out of ten, but there is always that little chance that your dreams will come true.

This is an amazing piece! :)

My story, is probably like unheard of, or at least my many friends with billions of ex's hasn't ever had the problem. lol.

We hung out all summer! Got really close... he held me throughout the night, we flirted all the time, and he was incredibly sweet all the time. And then we left, and he decided we were going to be just friends, after I told him I like him.

Talk about a slap in the face? lol. But we're basically perfect together, and he's pretty much the best guy I've ever had. lol.

But for the moment, I'm over his episode, and moved on. Still, I always go back to him, and he to I, during a relationship with someone else, or any other time. I guess that's fudged up?

Oh well, I'm very sorry for all you other people that have had bad experiences in their relationships, and to you, because I spent two years chasing a guy who just wanted.. something I wasn't willing to give to him. It's really hard.

This was a great piece though! :)

on Oct. 15 2009 at 3:29 pm
KaraTaylor DIAMOND, Neptune, New Jersey
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Favorite Quote:
"life isn't a matter of milestones, but of moments"

"experience is the name everyone gives to their mistakes."

"be as you wish to seem."

"it's better to be hated for what you are, than to be loved for what you are not."

thank youu

on Oct. 15 2009 at 2:19 pm
White_Shadow BRONZE, Putnam, Illinois
2 articles 0 photos 110 comments

Favorite Quote:
"A life without cause is a life without effect." - Unknown

ok i'll try my best

on Oct. 15 2009 at 9:20 am
KaraTaylor DIAMOND, Neptune, New Jersey
81 articles 17 photos 84 comments

Favorite Quote:
"life isn't a matter of milestones, but of moments"

"experience is the name everyone gives to their mistakes."

"be as you wish to seem."

"it's better to be hated for what you are, than to be loved for what you are not."

okayy i am so excitied. here i am on the computer in the back of my science room to find that my story has been approved. the first couple chapters are posted and they are about that boy. well some are. if you wanna know the whole story without leaving any details missing, keep up on this story. thye are posted in chapters :)

i am still working on it. it is like a journal i keep on updating and posting. stay reading that and you will totally know what is going on without missing anything

thanksss :)

on Oct. 14 2009 at 2:05 pm
White_Shadow BRONZE, Putnam, Illinois
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Favorite Quote:
"A life without cause is a life without effect." - Unknown

ooo i've seen that happen. And i've read that book to-boot! haha. It's a hard tale...but what made your friend (jake) leave you?